In early July, Ethiopia let our agency know that the girl we were in the process to adopt needed to be adopted with her 2 older sisters (who had not been placed for adoption). This situation is happening to other families this summer as Ethiopia has decided to require agencies to seek out siblings not placed by birth families for adoption in an effort to allow kids to grow up together.
This decision has been on our hearts as we have made our move to Oregon this summer. These are beautiful girls, and I wish we could announce that we would be adopting all 3. But Chris and I, in consultation with friends, family, our Heavenly Father, and our agency, have come to the conclusion that these girls are meant for another family. We are sad, but feel peace with the decision that is right for all of us.
At this point we have decided to join the waiting list for a referral of a child younger than M.C. That feels like the best fit for our family. We pray for the girls that they find an amazing family in God's timing. We know He hasn't forgotten our hearts either. We wait in anticipation to see what He has cookin' up for us...
4 comments:
ugh, I can't imagine what y'all have been through.
This adoption 'thing' is HARD!!!!
Praying for some peace...and some good news.
Praying for the little ones also.
Carrie, I just want to let you know I am praying for you and your family. I know it must be tough to let go of that dream. We do need to catch up.
Carrie, I follow your blog but never emailed you. I am sorry for your sad news, but know along with you that God has the perfect child for your family, and also the perfect family for the three sib girls. We have "lost" children before, in that we were expecting to bring home once a sib set of 4 and that adopion fell through. God was so very good to us and brought us just the right kids we were meant to bring home. It does hurt though and I'm so sorry
Julee
mommy to many
including 8 from Ethiopia
waiting for 2 more from Ethiopia
http://stillwaterjulee.blogspot.com
that is so hard. I am sorry that you are not able to adopt the girl that you dreamed of adopting.
God's plans are always perfect, but the journey can be hard. I will be praying for you.
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